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REIGN OVER ME

"Hey Sandler, Your Hair Called.  It Wants its Brush Back."
Directed by Mike Binder - Written by Mike Binder
Starring Adam Sandler, Don Cheadle, Jada Pinkett Smith, Saffron Burrows
Cicely Tyson, Robert Klein, Liv Tyler, Melinda Dillon, Mike Binder, Ted Raimi
Distributed by Sony - 2007 - 124m - Rated R

Richard Propes' Review

A-

 
I found myself sobbing.
 
Have you ever lost a loved one due to a senseless act of violence or incomprehensible tragedy? A spouse? A child? A parent, perhaps?

"Reign Over Me," the latest film from writer/director Mike Binder ("The Upside of Anger"), is the story of two men, Alan (Don Cheadle) and Charlie (Adam Sandler), who were once college roommates and now, years later, have their paths cross once again with Charlie living in a lonely, isolative and tragic world surrounded by the memory of his wife, three daughters and dog who were killed during the 9/11 attacks in New York City.

Despite the apparent contrast between these two lead characters, one a successful dentist and family man and the other a man who has thrown away his entire career while drowning in grief and guilt, it becomes quickly even more apparent that both of these men are struggling to cope with the choices they have made and the circumstances in which they find themselves living. While Charlie's tragic circumstances are more readily apparent, there is no denying that Alan and Charlie find in each other a bridge to the way life used to be and, in turn, a place deep within where it just may be safe enough to rediscover hope.

I cannot deny that I found myself sobbing within a few minutes of watching Charlie onscreen. As Charlie withdrew, isolated, avoided, flashed back, remembered, exploded and so painfully ached, I found myself remembering vividly those emotions I experienced myself around the loss of innocence from childhood sexual abuse, the untimely death of my own daughter and the overall rage and guilt and despair and hopelessness that still, at times, swallows me up and refuses to spit me out.

Thus, it is both as a survivor and as a film critic that I write these words and thoughts and feelings. As I write these words, I find myself still physically aching from the physical tension and waves of emotion that flooded over me as I watched scene after scene of Charlie's interactions with Alan and others within his peripheral vision. Charlie simultaneously is blinded to the world around him yet overwhelmed by sensory experiences that serve as constant reminders of the life he once had and circumstances over which he had no control.

In P.T. Anderson's remarkably powerful "Punch-Drunk Love," Sandler became an actor. Anderson discovered a way to tap into Sandler's innocence and crage in creating one of the last decade's most memorable characters. As Charlie, Sandler never hits a wrong note with a character that taps less into Sandler's quirkiness and more into the lovable vulnerability that has long made even Sandler's silliest comedies occasionally heartwarming. This stunning vulnerability is on remarkable display in a monologue by Sandler near the film's end that is mesmerizing both for Sandler's performance and for Binder's wise choice to have both Cheadle and Liv Tyler, as a psychiatrist, simply sitting there in utter silence. Sandler, who received a Golden Globe nomination in 2003 for his work in "Punch-Drunk Love," should most definitely be remembered again come awards season.

As the seemingly more stable of the two, the Oscar-winning Cheadle offers his usual focused, complex performance while blending perfectly with Sandler's Charlie. Cheadle offers the film a steady presence, but he's also comfortable enough to become vulnerable, intimate, goofy and even a bit angry by film's end. With the nearly overwhelming grief of Charlie dominating, Cheadle wisely underplays his more intimate grief.

Writer/Director Mike Binder continues to show a remarkable gift for developing authentic conflict cinematically, while also displaying a knack for writing characters who behave believably in unbelievable circumstances.

In some ways, "Reign Over Me" is very reminiscent of Spike Lee's similarly powerful yet intimately drawn "25th Hour." "25th Hour," one of the first post-9/11 New York City based films to really address the intimacy of grief, was perhaps more powerful because it addressed people's lives after 9/11 rather than becoming a film solely about 9/11. Cheadle himself has openly admitted in interviews that he questioned whether the 9/11 storyline was even needed for "Reign Over Me."

It's a legitimate discussion because "Reign Over Me" isn't about 9/11...it's about New Yorkers, some of whom had their lives devastated by the events on 9/11 and others whose lives went on in all their glorious imperfection. The film, filmed in New York City and California, even feels intimate in the way it weaves itself throughout the streets of New York City.

In a sense, the film seems to be both a reverent tribute to the survivors of 9/11 and also an acknowledgement that we cannot forget those who grieve in other ways for other losses in our everyday lives.

Binder has, by his own admission, had a hit-and-miss career as a director throughout his nine films. It is the very qualities that one can find maddening about Binder that ultimately work together to make "Reign Over Me" such a memorable film.

While Binder's films often feel a bit disconnected, it is this sense of spontaneity and life that create a marvelously rich and exhilarating spirit even within the most painful moments of "Reign Over Me." While it's easy to question the appropriateness of Binder's usual cameo or the occasionally awkward grounds upon which he builds a companion storyline with Donna, young woman (Saffron Burrows) who accuses Alan of sexual harassment, to completely dismiss these scenes would be to too quickly dismiss the often spontaneous, unpredictable and irreverent nature of the healing journey.

While "Reign Over Me" may not always feel grounded in reality, how realistic is it to think about two airplanes taking down the World Trade Center?

Sometimes, reality is overrated.

After Sandler's magnificent monologue towards the film's end, the film too quickly speeds its way through resolution including resolving family conflicts, addressing legal issues and, perhaps most awkwardly, introducing the potential for Charlie and the previously mentioned Donna to find connection. While the idea of innocent, heartfelt connection for Charlie is a positive resolution, it's hard to completely ignore the obvious disregard for confidentiality that allowed Donna to be integrated into the scenario.

Jada Pinkett Smith, as Alan's needy yet equally hurting wife and Robert Klein along with Melinda Dillon as Charlie's in-laws all offer decent performances in smaller, more lightly developed roles while Donald Sutherland shines in a brief appearance as a judge who sees beyond the masquerade of justice.

The film's cinematography is stellar and, again, reminiscent of "25th Hour," while other aspects of the film's production design also excel. Much has been written about Sandler's rather uncanny resemblance to Bob Dylan in the film, a fact that is particularly noteworthy since the film beautifully incorporates lyrically and musically appropriate scenes and Charlie seems to withdraw most safely into an iPod that seems to express feelings he keeps locked inside.

There are moments in life we never forget. Moments of great joy and moments of great sorrow. Then, there are those moments that go beyond being merely memorable...they become the moments that shape our minds, our thoughts, our hearts and the rest of our lives. When Charlie, in one particularly powerful scene retreats into his own world singing along with The Who's "Love Reign O'er Me," it becomes clear that "Reign Over Me" isn't a film about 9/11 or tragedy or hurt or grief or rage...it's about the ways in which we crawl through the ashes of our lives and seek to rebuild the bridges of hope that connect us to one another even when hope is the last thing in the world to even make sense.

I am sobbing.  But...I am alive.
 
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